Thursday, March 27, 2008 @ 3:34 PM
change of plans. vincent said that the setting up of the booth can only be done at night, maybe cos it's more convenient during night, so there's no need for me to go down and help, seeing that i've something on after 'work'. LOL.
so yeah, another day mc lo. keke.
was about to go get my hair cut, then it had to pour. so i'm waiting for 5pm lydat before leaving to meet up with the rest.
got wind of the news that an acquaintance who has recently been betrayed by her bf. i wasn't even affected by it now. seriously, what is the world coming to. it would have affected me alot if i heard about it in the past, but now, i don't even feel surprised.
what's wrong with guys that they just can't be faithful to their one significant other? is it that difficult to just stick to one? personally, i could care less about it, but when they are happening to people that i know personally one after the other, it gets on my nerves. and again, like that previous case, after he's been exposed, he apologises, and sweet talks.
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BOO.
share your real life stories here.
if you're once betrayed by your partner with another person and etc.
the process of healing. the hurt. and etc.
while for me, i guess i'm numb. i couldnt cry. i can even smile and question my boyfriends betrayal in total coolness. the whole drama during the exposure of his betrayal was one long amusing ride.
it's like observing how to spot a person lying by seeing his or her eyes and actions.
currently, he is the one pleading me not to leave him and give him one more chance. all his sweet talk and 'i need you' blah blah talk, came out.
i got tonight to think about this. and make a decision, hopefully by tomorrow.
i'm abit torn though.
i didnt even shed a tear or show a tinge of sadness that time.
maybe i'm losing it.
or i've grown up through this incident?
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yeah. different people has their own different ways to handle it, you can cry and mope around for all of eternity, you can smile and move on, it's entirely up to you. just don't pretend to be someone you're not. don't try to move on when you feel better moping around. and don't pretend to be sad when you just can't feel sad. but whatever it is, my advice is to move on and not stick with the person anymore. once there's the first time, there will be the countless times that come after it. sure, you can say, what if he doesn't do that anymore. so i'll return another what if. what if, he does it again? and again and again? what are you going to do about that again and again? you might love him alot, but try loving yourself instead and think, can you really handle his betrayal yet again?
i hate to stereotype and generalise, but i'll make an exception this one time: guys can either be faithful throughout all their lives or be unfaithful throughout all their lives. there's no in between. if there are, well, show me.
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