Saturday, April 5, 2008 @ 12:39 AM
some guys just somehow can get more than what they deserve to get, and yet they don't seem to treasure what they have at all.
they'll either stray, take their other half for granted, cheat, two time, whatsoever. classic examples of guys who think using the wrong head. _|_
from the past till now, i've always looked down on guys who make girls cry, for no matter what reasons. it's just so fxxking wrong. besides, i don't know how to console a girl, so i seriously hate it when i see girls cry, etc. all i can do is to sit beside the girl and listen to her, and provide tissues. what to say, i seriously don't know. that contributes to me despising guys who make girls cry as well.
i seriously don't know what to say anymore la. one by one i see the girls around me being upset over their boyfriends. and the fact is that it's not even worth being upset over them AT ALL.
and also, don't ever drag on a relationship that's doomed to fail because you can't let go/can't bear to, etc. to be blunt, that is seriously stupid. either work it out with the guy if you think you still want to salvage it, or to end it asap. just dragging it on, pretending to be oblivious to things that are already happening is never going to make it. a leopard doesn't change its spots. if the guy keeps doing something that upsets you, even if you were to voice it out, chances are he'd TRY to stop, but he'll end up at square one. and congrats, you'll end up wasting few weeks or few months of your life trying to patch up a sinking ship.
but i'm not saying to end a relationship once there're problems or dissatisfaction with the other person. first ask yourself, if it's even possible to be with him any longer, if it's possible for you to tolerate his flaws, is it even possible for him to change for you, and most importantly, do you even feel loved by him? answer those questions on your own, and work things out from there.
the one i've heard today is the fourth one i've got to know about in recent times. and by recent, it's less than what? two months or three? =/ seriously cannot make it. some guys are really not worth the tears girls are shedding over.
girls, wake up please. -.-
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