Tuesday, May 13, 2008 @ 12:52 AM
it's kind of funny at times to see people being more worked up than the people involved whenever something happens.
admittedly, life's never uneventful for me, or at least for the people around me, ever since the start of attachment. but wow, though it's only been moments since it's finally peaceful, something just had to happen again. keke. for better or for worse, it depends on how the guy involved is going to decide. but essentially, it has nothing to do with anyone else among us, as it's his own personal affair. WHICH brings me to another point.
maybe by some stroke of luck, this guy knows the other person involved in the affair and he is some sort of a confidante for the other person, but it's still comical to see him more worked up and fed up about it than the people involved. =/ and also, it's best not to jump to conclusions and come up with all sorts of funny remarks about a friend when you only have been hearing things from one side. outsiders should remain standing outside, and not get involved with other people's personal affairs. you can give advice, you can be a confidante, but sorry, being worked up and pestering the guy to make a decision just doesn't make things work.
it's never easy to find out the fact that the past is not as easy to let go as you initially thought. perhaps you thought that you've moved on, and perhaps, you've already did. but when the past comes back to haunt you, how many of you can disregard it or even to treat the past as simply the past and move forward? and how many of you would pause and hesitate? but of course, time is not that forgiving for you to just hesitate on and on. some day or later, you will still have to make a choice. there's no right or wrong answers. think with your brains, if you don't have brains, then think with your heart. and if you don't have a heart either, then fuck you to hell.
if you can simply say the past is the past, that you'll never return to square one no matter what, then congratulations, you've made up your mind, kindly move on. if you were to hesitate, that simply means there's something endearing to you from the past that you can't simply let go off, despite everything that has happened in the present. and perhaps, that's when you ought to start thinking that maybe the past might turn out to be your future. there's more than a single answer to every question, so don't fucking push your ideals onto another person.
on an entirely unrelated note, i seriously feel like slapping each and every si ginna because they are just plain pains in the ass.
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