mehh.
Lim Kan Wei
22/04/1989
Nan Hua Secondary School
Ngee Ann Polytechnic
Enlisting on Sept 11 1130hr.
Friday, October 10, 2008 @ 2:17 AM
was chatting with wenqi a short while ago and she was saying that she's reading a few blogs which were quite saddening.
took a glance at the blogs and i didn't feel like reading on.
maybe i wasn't in the mood to handle all that, or maybe i've never tasted true sadness on my own before for me to face others'.
but then i opened up one of the link once again and read.
wenqi posted the entry dated around may, but i skipped to the latest entry after glancing through the particular post.
perhaps i feel better with reading from the end, rather than to go through all the process, though i guess the blogger didn't have any option but to live through her suffering like she did.
i think that i'm a person that's extremely hard to get surprised by anything. i can't say that i've lived a long life, but as far as i've seen, i've gradually learnt what to expect, and what not to. and i can't even smile at the fact that i am never ever surprised whenever i hear and read stories about guys betraying girls. sure, it could be due to the fact that i'm dulled by the countless stories of atrocities done by guys to girls.
guys may argue that guys can be victims in some cases as well.
sure. but i'm also very sure that guys can cope so much better than girls in such cases.
which somehow reminded me of this .. incident i just heard.
guy A & girl B.
A is this guy with a history of being emo, over liking this girl for years, but can never progress anywhere further from just being friends. his methods are awkward, and will often result in the girl turning off, rather than liking him. but no matter what people around him says, he persists on his ways. on two occasions, he seemed to move on, but.. =/
first time, he got to know this girl online and apparently they hit off well.
but subsequently, he began to have a liking for the girl and he started his awkward methods of wooing the girl.
appear offline when the girl isn't online if he doesn't want to talk to anyone else.
and will appear online immediately when he sees the girl online, just to talk to her.
he also began to track and will say at times that the girl went offline 13 minutes ago [accurate to the last digit], and he shouldn't have bathed, etc.
he also reads the girl's blog fervently and saved the girl's photo in his phone without anyone else's knowledge.
at the same time, the girl managed to hit it off well with this mutual friend of theirs and coincidentally, that other guy was her senior in school.
this didn't sit well with A and he actually questioned the other guy whether he likes the girl or not.
eventually, the girl found out and felt very turned off and decided to delete him off his msn and changed her blog address, cutting off all contacts with him.
A became emo yet again, which lasted for about a few months, perhaps, and he went back to emo-ing over the initial girl whom he liked for years.
the rest of us just let him be and let him carry on his rants.
until recently, he met girl B.
as a joke, we all thought, he called her dear, darling, etc.
B took it in her stride initially, but it got from bad to worse that she had to tell him to stop it.
so he did.
but he tried to find ways and means to get himself closer to her, even though he states that he only treats B as a friend, nothing else.
... [i'm feeling that it's getting quite longwinded, so i shall cut it short.]
basically, history seems to be repeating itself all over again.
which made me change my impression of him considerably.
to put it bluntly, this type of guys is simply called 贱.
read yw's today's entry and i was at a loss for words to tag in her tagboard.
but i particularly agree with what she said about guys. =/
and ironically speaking, i'm glad to be a guy cos i don't think i'd like guys were i to be a girl instead.
there's a valid reason why you see lesbian couples everywhere in town. =//
random quotes:
would you marry someone you love, or would you love someone you marry?
就让我慢慢学习
学习悲伤的时候
不闭上眼睛
趁眼泪还没形成之前
就在空气中被蒸发掉
- 元大鹰 篮球火
regarding my choice for title, it came to me while i was reading this article:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/business/7660409.stm
if there's a debt clock for us guys to girls, i wonder how many digits would it need?
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