mehh.
Lim Kan Wei
22/04/1989
Nan Hua Secondary School
Ngee Ann Polytechnic
Enlisting on Sept 11 1130hr.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008 @ 3:01 AM
apparently the feeling that i got two weeks ago were accurate.
the lull before the storm thing. though it's not obvious, but it probably started from the past week until now..
and no, this time it has nothing to do with the poly friends. which is a good thing. (:
i've seen too much cases of when a girl gets too friendly with guys with the pure intention of treating them as friends, and yet the guys ended up falling in love with the girl.
and admittedly, i can't say that i've never been that way before.
but seriously, when i've been through it and learnt from experience, now seeing other guys committing the mistake over and over again, i ended up laughing at them, and myself, inevitably.
are guys that.. 犯贱..?
had to type chinese cos i can't find a more suitable word in english.
and then i see the guys being so obvious with their behavior and yet the girl still remains oblivious..
following which i see the guys being wary of each other's actions, wondering whether the other person is also wooing after the girl..
then it turns out that the girl has another guy in her mind, which results in a good show. =/
most guys do recover from heartbreaks and rejections easily, or at least easier than the average girl, but hell, that doesn't mean it don't hurt. =/
so.. i just don't get why guys still end up committing the same mistake over and over again.
and it ends up troubling the girl in question when she finally realises cos she will end up trying to keep a distance away from the guys she saw as good friends, and having to spare a thought for their feelings at the same time.
but i think this storm will blow over soon. =/
hopefully nothing else will happen for now.
watched cape no. 7 with wenqi, yingwei and zhiwei on friday.
yingwei dozed off halfway and zhiwei was almost blind so he couldn't read the subtitles when the dialogue was in japanese.
the show surprised me with its amount of japanese and hokkien [it's not really hokkien actually, but i shall use hokkien for simplicity's sake]. but the old man was hiliarious la. LOL. it's a good show la. but the love scene between the two leads were abit abrupt, and i realised why after reading the wiki about it. a near 20 minutes of that scene was chopped off. =/ that's a whole damn lot la. -.- go watch go watch go watch! :D but the storyline is a little confusing. the 7 letters aren't that.. important. or at least i was unable to grasp the importance of the 7 letters in relation to the whole show. even though they are supposed to bring out the atmosphere between the two leads la.
one last thing.. somehow or rather, the emo bug seems to be flying around these days. along with the flu bug. =/
took a glance through my msn list and tadah, a few emo nicks.
and me myself isn't exactly happy these few days..
i'm alright, but i can be better, i think.
then i see the people i care about being unhappy as well, and i feel worse when i can't do anything to help.
you want to offer them a listening ear, but they tell you they are alright even when you can tell they are not.
and to make it worse, you don't know them as well as you'd like to. so you can't even venture a guess about what's bugging them.
in the end, all you can do is to ask, are you okay? or to say, cheer up & take care.
and they are the people whom you will smile when you see them smile, and you'll feel upset when you see them cry.
but you can't do anything to help them. =/
in my case, i guess it's pointless.
i can't even help myself. =/
but hey, even though it might not help, but to the people who have been unhappy recently, please cheer up kaes?
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